Season 9: Episode 97 - What is Addiction?
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In this new season, “What is Addiction” we will focus on three main aspects of addiction:
what addiction is
how addiction operates
what recovery entails
What is addiction?
Addiction is a counterfeit substitute for the normal desire for fulfillment and relief-seeking.
Addiction actually robs us of the legitimate fulfillment and relief that we seek.
Addiction prevents us from seeing who we are made to be and blocks us from doing what we are made to do.
Addiction is a thief that steals, kills, and destroys.
Addiction defined
Addiction is a set of behaviors that eventually result in negative outcomes and yet the person continues in the behavior, without admitting that the problem is beyond their own control to change it or stop it.
Addiction as a sickness:
In 1957 the American Medical Association concluded that addiction fit the categories to be classified as a disease, not a moral, intellectual, or will power failure. Alcoholics Anonymous had been operating under the conclusion that addiction was a sickness that required a relational and spiritual “cure” since 1935.
The AMA stated that addiction, like all diseases, is a morbid process, with a characteristic set of symptoms, of known or unknown origin, that is chronic, progressive, and often fatal.
Addiction is specifically marked by denial, blame, and projection. Ultimately, a self-diagnosis is required for recovery to a normal life and lifestyle.
Addiction is not:
An intellectual problem. Everyone who is addicted to any substance or process uses “artful” logic to continue and justify their actions.
A will power problem. Everyone who is addicted is able to continue to operate, usually like “normal”, while being burdened by the “secrecy” of what is actually going on.
A moral problem. Everyone who is addicted has the essential sense that their actions work against honesty and integrity.
If intellect, will power, and morality could “cure” the obsession and compulsion of addiction, it would be solved. Some of the greatest intellects, toughest humans, and paragons of morality have died of addiction.
Addiction is a “heart” problem, not a “thought” problem.
Once the “heart” is attended to and takes the lead, intellect, will power and moral compunction take their proper place and have their beneficial use.
Addiction is a heart problem:
People who become addicted are ignorant about, dissociated from, or in denial about having feelings. They either don’t know the impact and importance of dealing with feelings or they’re “running” from their internal experience of feelings.
Addiction is ultimately a “feelings” disorder of not knowing what to do with one’s own emotional and spiritual experience of living and life.
Almost everyone who becomes addicted to any substance or process of behaviors has its genesis in trauma.
Trauma comes from experiences in living that require suppression of or denial about the feelings that are normal for the experience. Continuing to suppress the emotional impact of memory requires some substance or process to remove the person from their feelings.
The process of avoiding feelings becomes the addiction process and changes the brain eventually to “demand” that the person operate in addiction.
Dr. Chip Dodd
Voice of the Heart Center